I'm usually not offended by anything and rarely get mad. But something kind of rubbed me the wrong way. Should I let this bother me?
A friend had a birthday earlier in the month. There's some weird history between us but I thought we had worked through that and become good friends (that is another story for a blog-post some other time).
Anyway... I got a gift for him but haven't been able to drop it off yet, his birthday was the week before my big exam and I was too focused on studying. He also hasn't wanted to get together since then, just a lot going on. Last night I asked if he and the hubby would be home in the evening so I could drop of his gift. I was basically told not to bother, I don't give real gifts anyway! Yes, granted I do give something small and funny along with something fitting the person. But my first thought to that was WTF? I was a little miffed.
What do y'all think? Let it go or let him know that it bothered me?