July 29, 2011

Planning vs. Spontaneity

I am not a planner.

Sometimes a friend will suggest we do something together and if it's further out than the weekend my usual response is: "I don't know, that's too far out to plan!"

The only time I deviate from being a planner is for big important events. Especially when I have to buy an airline ticket.

I blogged before about some trips I've gone on where I have had no itinerary. I love those type of trips. They left me free to roam around on my own and to find my own adventures. But I can see why people make plans to see certain things in a new city they visit. Don't most places have a "must see" thing that one should visit while in the city or area? I sometimes had a vague feeling while wandering around in my travels that maybe I was missing out on something. But that feeling soon left as I found something to do.

I know a lot of people that are planners. I've even seen friends make plans months in advance with spreadsheets and all; planning out the trip to the minute. At best I think about packing things a day or two before my trip. I may grab a guide book if I'm going to a new city to see it it mentions good things to see. But I don't trust guide books all the time. My last trip to Key West the guide book said that an area on the pier was fun and a little more adult in the entertainment and it promised a great view of the sunset. When we got there it was very crowded and families with little children were everywhere. EW! We ventured out on our own and had a better time doing our own thing.

One of my favorite things to do is check the brochure rack at a hotel. They usually will let me know what is happening in the area and I'll go from there.

If you're a planner let me know what drives you. If you're like me and love to be spontaneous share a story or two, if you'd like.

4 comments:

Kelly said...

I am in between... I like to make sure if I am shelling out a fortune to go somewhere, I at least try and take in something there that made the city what it is... I also like to hit whatever local gay bar and chat with the locals to see what they do and like, which leads me to good restaurants or interesting places... I am for some planning, but going with the flow is just as much fun, if not more...

Cubby said...

What drives me is not wanting to waste money or opportunities. On a vacation, I will plan out a loose framework of things to do, with about half of the time available to do spontaneous unplanned things. I think going half-and-half like that is great way to vacation.

anne marie in philly said...

planner for vacations only. and then I leave free time to just do nothing if I so choose.

seeing where life takes me is fun!

Erik Rubright said...

I don't remember the last time I planned a plan for a trip. I know when we're going and when we'll return (because I have to schedule clients), but that's about it.