August 6, 2011

Six on the Sixth

Tom over at My New Life started a new feature that I like and that I may start doing too.

Six things that some may not know about me.
1. I am NOT a competitive person. At all. Sure, I'll try to do my best all the time but I rarely participate in any team sport where I'm out to beat someone at something. I played on the Dallas gay volleyball league for a few years but quit because people took it way too serious. I would often tell them: "in the grand scheme of life, this is only a game! Don't get so worked up about it!"

2. I don't know how to flirt. Sometimes I am very shy and don't say much. At other times I'm too direct and that turns people off. I'm mostly just clueless. So I just try to be myself.

3. I had a major crush on my high school band teacher. I'm afraid I was kind of obvious about it too. Our high school had a pool and we often used it for gym class or class/group parties. I saw this band teacher naked and OMG I was smitten. Once during a band concert we were talking back stage in very close proximity and I'm pretty sure his hand lingered in my private nether regions for about a minute!

4. I avoid confrontations at all costs.

5. I can't stand peanut butter. The thought makes me nauseous. Yuck!

6. I prefer warm weather to cold. I really don't mind the heatwave that we're having in Dallas right now. The other night I really didn't mind being at the outdoor concert when the temperature was 105. If it had been a little chilly I would have been complaining and wanting to leave as soon as I could so I could go get warm.

5 comments:

Ur-spo said...

I can think of worse things in life than having an aversion to peanut butter.
I am not a competitive person either; although I enjoy flirting - the later is closely related to being the clown.

anne marie in philly said...

NO PEANUT BUTTER?!? OMG!

SteveA said...

My gosh Jim, there's a few things in there that is so me - it was as if I had written this post:

1. I also avoid confrontation - I often describe myself as a eustresser i.e. I try to avoid stress and confrontation at all costs;
2. I hate competition and I am also not competitive - I hate what it can bring out...
3. Just today I was talking to a friend of mine and saying that I love the warmth and I wish it would be warm like this all year round...at lunch when I eat outdoors I eat in the sun....

Buddy Bear said...

I'm with you on competitiveness! I hate it when everything becomes competition: I'm the least competitive person I know. When I'm in the right mood, I can be extremely flirtatious although I've only had practice with the hetero kind, not homo.

For me, bring on the cold (or cooler) weather, baby!

Ron said...

Very interesting Jim. This is a good idea for a blog posting. Funny thing, I'm almost the opposite of everything you said. I flirt, even when I'm not aware of it. I love peanut butter. Confrontation? I don't look for it but I don't avoid it either. It's gotten me into a lot of trouble one the years and caused me to lose two jobs. I'm also very completive. I like the change in seasons, both warm and cold. But I do have six things on my list. I hate macron and cheese. Makes me gag to just think of it. I'll post my list tomorrow. Thanks for the idea.