I've admitted before that I don't know how to flirt. I am just usually myself, and at times I'm not even sure who that is... ugh.
But I have recently learned and have figured out that "confidence is sexy". Mind you, I find someone who is overly confident, to the point of being egomaniacal, is a big turn-off. It's a fine line to have confidence yet not be arrogant. And boy can I have some fun when I'm standing or walking on that fine line!
It's nice to flirt and then, when the time is right, just take what you want. In fact, I find a lot of people want someone who has a 'take charge' type attitude in the bedroom. Even when you're the object, the one who is being seduced, it's really nice when someone is letting you know when you're attractive and desirable.
Is flirting and seduction done much anymore in our new electronic world of Grindr, Manhunt, Scruff or some other hook up site? It now seems like we're ordering from an online catalog or a takeout menu. What about flirting and making someone feel attractive? I find that the qualities that I'm attracted to in a guy are things that you can't detect from a small picture or a sentence about what they're "into". You certainly can't tell if someone is confident from a picture of their bare chest with only their nipples showing, now can you?
Here is one of my favorite quotes from the show Mad Men:
"You'll realize in your private life that at a certain point seduction is over and force is actually be requested."
See why I love this show!
Have y'all ever been in a situation like this? I'd love to hear your stories. Maybe some bloggers will take this up as a blog challenge.... Do you like being seduced? Have you ever seduced someone? Do tell....